Centering

yourself

in romance

A practical, no-bullshit guide for women who burn themselves out giving too much in love.

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THIS IS FOR YOU IF…

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    You’re miserable in your relationship but aren’t ready or able to leave yet.

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    You’re restless or discontent, wondering if something is missing but not sure if it’s you or the relationship.

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    You want a relationship where you can thrive as your whole self — not just as someone’s partner.

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    You’re happy in your relationship, but you want to protect your sense of self and make sure you don’t disappear into “us.”

No matter where you fall, centering yourself changes everything.

If you’re miserable but staying, centering yourself helps you reclaim your peace, sanity, and self-respect.

If you’re unsure, centering yourself brings clarity — should you stay, or should you go?

If you’re happy, centering yourself helps your relationship thrive, because healthy love only flourishes when both people have boundaries and individuality.

Inside this bundle, you’ll find:

  • How to stop feeling bitter and resentful

    The radical truths that change the way you see yourself in love.

  • Clarity on whether the problem is you or the relationship

    Simple shifts that reveal if you’re truly unhappy with your partner, or if you’ve just lost yourself.

  • How to start reclaiming your sense of self and identity

    Reconnecting with who you are outside of your role as a partner.

  • What it actually looks like to be centered while in partnership

    Showing up fully without shrinking or abandoning yourself.

  • Concrete starting points

    Small, practical steps to begin centering yourself day-to-day.

  • Inventories for turning experiences into data

    With the Reciprocity Audit and the Self Abandonment Inventory, you’ll have a crystal clear picture of your patterns and how they contribute to the imbalance in your relationship.

For less than the cost

of a night out at dinner

If you were to purchase each piece of this bundle separately, here’s what it would cost:

  • The Centering Yourself in Romance eBook – $47

    A deep, story-driven 70-page guide through the psychology of self-abandonment and the practice of coming back home to yourself in love.

  • The Self-Abandonment in Romance Inventory – $27

    A reflective assessment that helps you spot exactly where you’ve been leaving yourself behind — and what it looks like to stay.

  • The Reciprocity Audit – $27

    A practical tool for seeing how emotional and practical labor are shared in your relationships — and where you’ve been carrying more than your share.

  • The Centering Yourself in Romance Audiobook (coming November 2026) – $37

    A full audio experience designed to help you integrate the work on a deeper level — through voice, rhythm, and repetition.

That’s a total value of $138 — for the stories, tools, and frameworks that will shift the way you see yourself in every relationship you have.

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✺ Frequently asked questions ✺

  • The title of the ebook and my business don’t show up at all. Your partner would have to do some SERIOUS sleuthing to figure out what the product is. Your statement will say something like
    “XRPXHBPSUO5R0KS KRISTIN HA* PAYHIP MOUNT VERNON WAUS”

  • Nope. This is for women in all kinds of relationships. Maybe you’re miserable and stuck. Maybe you’re restless and unsure. Maybe you’re happy but don’t want to lose yourself. If you’ve ever caught yourself giving too much, this is for you.

  • Short. Straightforward. You can read it in one sitting — because you don’t need another 300-page self-help manual gathering dust on your nightstand.

  • Absolutely not. That’s lazy advice. I won’t tell you to “just leave,” because life, finances, kids, and self-worth all complicate that. What I will do is help you stop abandoning yourself so you can finally see clearly whether this relationship feeds you or drains you.

  • No. That’s not what this is for. You can’t control or change your partner — and the more you try, the more burned out and resentful you’ll feel. What this ebook will do is help you shift how you show up, reclaim your power, and stop abandoning yourself. Sometimes that shift inspires partners to step up. Sometimes it makes it clear they never will. Either way, you win clarity.

  • That’s part of the work. Inside, I’ll show you what their reactions mean (and they will react), and how to stand your ground without immediately folding back into old patterns.

  • Then this is exactly for you. It’s not about finding hours you don’t have — it’s about learning how to stop giving away the little you do have. The book itself is a quick read, and I have the audio version available, too.

  • At this time, no. It’s only available through Payhip. You’ll get instant access when you buy here.

  • You’ll be redirected to Payhip, where you’ll enter your payment details and create a quick account. Immediately after payment, you’ll get access to download the ebook (and audio, if you choose the bundle).