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No-nonsense guidance from a woman who’s been there.

Have you always wanted to be the kind of person who was sure of herself, but didn’t know how to become her?

I see you.

I’ve struggled with people-pleasing, codependency, and low self-esteem most of my life. I didn’t know how to exist in relationships as my authentic self, so I played it safe. I was the agreeable caretaker. The one who never asked for help.

But living that way was killing my spirit.

I felt restless. Bored. Tired of life. Empty of meaning and purpose.

It felt I was just waiting for someone else to come along and make things feel exciting or meaningful.

After the world shut down in 2020, I made a deep promise to myself:

I was going to live my life for me.

And I was shocked by what happened.

WHEN I STOPPED PERFORMING FOR BELONGING, I ACTUALLY STARTED TO BELONG.

I thought that if I had needs, desires, or boundaries—if I stopped being what everyone wanted—I’d end up alone.

But the opposite happened.

I found real connection.

Real peace.

And real power.

But it wasn’t easy. I had to work through years of internalized guilt, fear, and self-abandonment (and sometimes still do).

That’s what I help women do now.

COACHING IS FOR YOU IF YOU’RE READY TO:

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    Stop spiraling when someone pulls away, gets mad, or doesn’t approve

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    Start setting boundaries without guilt or emotional collapse

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    Quit over-giving and second-guessing yourself all day

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    Walk away from what drains you—without the drama

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    Trust yourself and your judgment implicitly

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    Show up as the most honest, grounded version of you

Wouldn’t it be amazing to feel like you are actually on your own side?

To be your own best friend, advocate, and anchor?

Let’s do that work — together.

See what other women are saying about the magic that happens inside our sessions:

  • STRONG & NURTURING:

    “I wish more people got to see this side of Kris. She is still strong and powerful the way you see her in her videos. But in conversation she’s like a nurturing mom and is really easy to talk to. She makes you feel like you can say anything without being judged or like you’re doing something wrong.”

  • GROUNDED & Playful:

    “Kris is a breath of fresh air in the self development world. You can tell she’s done a lot of work on herself, but is good at keeping things playful while talking about serious stuff. She helped me stop taking myself so seriously.”

  • Direct & EFFICIENT:

    “Kris has a gift for cutting through the noise and getting to the heart of an issue. It’s amazing how much you can uncover in a session with her. Every session I had helped me learn so much about myself. She helped me realize why I don’t put myself first and took the power out of the stories I was telling myself”.

  • INSIGHTFUL & FEARLESS:

    “Kris is a witch! (in a good way). She can hear your limiting beliefs in ordinary words and helps you get to the heart of them without missing a beat. Every session I had with her, I walked away feeling like I had nothing to be afraid of. Like most of the stuff I was afraid of had no power over me anymore.”

  • ACTION-ORIENTED:

    “Kris has this way of lighting a fire under you. She makes you feel like you can do anything, and helps you remember that you know what is best for you.”

PACKAGES

Whether you need a quick reset or deep transformation, these sessions are here to help you come home to yourself.

The Realignment Session – $900

A single 90-minute session to clear the fog, shift your energy, and reconnect with your truth. Perfect if you’re in a spiral, stuck on a decision, or just need a reminder of your power.

The Groundwork Series – $2400

Three 60-minute sessions to build emotional momentum and work through a specific area (boundaries, dating, family, self-trust, etc).

We go deep—but stay grounded in action.

The Reclamation Journey – $4800

Six 60-minute sessions for full-on transformation. We’ll unearth the old stories, rewire your patterns, and rebuild your relationship with yourself from the inside out.

book a free 30 min consultation:

Not sure which package is right for you? Let’s talk.

There’s no pressure to commit—this is just a chance for us to connect and see if we’re a good fit.

✺ Frequently asked questions ✺

  • This coaching is for women who are ready to center themselves, break free from people-pleasing and self-abandonment, and build a life rooted in confidence and self-worth. Whether you’re navigating relationships, personal growth, or major life transitions, this coaching will help you reclaim your power and make aligned decisions.

  • Coaching focuses on self-awareness, empowerment, and action to help you move forward, while therapy often explores deep past wounds and trauma healing. While we may touch on past themes and how they affect your current circumstances, coaching is future-focused and designed to help you implement strategies, develop boundaries, and step into your personal power. It is not a substitute for therapy but can complement personal growth work.

  • Each session is tailored to your specific needs and goals. We’ll discuss where you are, what challenges you’re facing, and actionable strategies to move forward. Sessions may include mindset shifts, boundary-setting techniques, inner work, and personalized guidance to help you step into your power. You’ll leave with clear next steps and a deeper sense of clarity.

  • That’s okay! Many clients come to coaching feeling stuck, overwhelmed, or unsure of what they need. Part of our work together is uncovering what’s keeping you blocked and helping you gain clarity. I’ll guide you through the process and help you identify the most impactful next steps.

  • After purchase, you’ll be emailed a coaching agreement for you to sign on Jotform. Once you sign, I send you an email with my calendly link to book our first session together. If you have any other questions, please get a hold of me using the contact form or emailing me at kris@thrivingimperfectly.com

  • Coaching is an investment in yourself, and to honor both our time, I have a 24-hour rescheduling policy. If you need to reschedule, you must notify me at least 24 hours before your session. Missed sessions or last-minute cancellations are non-refundable. Coaching packages are also non-refundable, as they are designed for committed transformation.

  • Yes! At checkout, you’ll have the option to set up a payment plan through Affirm, Afterpay, or Klarna. Many of these plans are interest-free, though it depends on the provider and terms selected. You’ll see the full breakdown before you complete your purchase.

That’s totally okay—coaching isn’t always the first step, and you don’t need to commit to something you’re not ready for.

If you’re still craving support, there are other powerful ways to begin.

You can start your journey with Foundations of Centering Yourself, my self-paced program designed to help you stop people-pleasing, set boundaries, and come back home to yourself.

Or you can join The Legion, my virtual community for women walking the Centered Woman Path—where we reflect, reset, and remember we’re not alone.

Not ready to invest in coaching yet?

You do not have to be good.
You do not have to walk on your knees For a hundred miles through the desert, repenting.
You only have to let the soft animal of your body
love what it loves.

— Mary Oliver, Wild Geese